He did not want to go but felt he had no choice.
I asked: “What would happen if you CHOSE not to go?” He replied that his wife would be very upset and it would harm their relationship.
Next, I asked: “How do you think your current attitude will impact the quality of your time together at this wedding?” He pondered this for a minute and admitted that he would have a miserable time and that would have a negative impact on his wife’s experience – not too much different than if he stayed home.
Finally, I asked: “Knowing that you really DO have a choice, what would happen if you looked at your options and CHOSE to attend the wedding and make this a great experience for your wife?”…
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